Judgement unavoidable...

Judgement.

Who are we to judge another?
Who are we to pass remarks?
Who are we to criticize?

But, WE CAN'T HELP IT.

I think that - its built in within us.

Even before we speak to someone,
our minds are already summing up the person,
already constructing first impressions.
We try not to, but it has already crossed our minds.

I often question the advise column,
who are the writers to give such remarks and advise,
based on a single sheet of paper inked with problems?
Do they know the whole story?
Do they know the other person's point of view?

Same goes for judges in hearing trials.
how can they sentenced someone,
based only on what was presented?
based only on what was argued?
who ARE THEY-to judge?

Yet, they do their best.
they advise based on what was written.
they judge the situation and feedback based on it.
the make ends meet with what is given to them.

So I say judgment is inevitable.
judgement is part of our lives,
whether we like it or not.

SO, i say,
TRY not to judge,
but if you really can't not judge,
then judge appropriately,
after given MUCH thought.