Judge Hypocrite

The thoughts that run through my mind when scrolling through Social Media feeds (don't judge me):

1. How is it that she's much heftier than me & yet she's got herself a boyfriend??
2. She's nice and all, but she's just NOT a looker. Yet she's keeping fit with Zumba, Body Combat & whatnot? She's even wearing makeup??
3. She's got such a bitchy attitude & yet she managed to get someone who's willing to tolerate her??
4. She's so bratty & yet she's lavished with riches aplenty??
5. She's really not all that much to shout about & yet she's got a gazillion likes on an unedited pic??
6. She's got such an "ancient" style & yet she's some big shot in a company now??

What the heck is wrong with the world?? I've got so much to offer! I'm gorgeous! I'm "humble". I speak well, with pun to boot. I know the difference between cheap fashion and classy fashion. So why are they getting all the attention and not me??


Ironic isn't it? How one asks others to not judge them, yet look down on everybody else. Why would someone seek high maintenance poison when they can be much happier with humble simplicity? How can one be positive about things and attract positivity, when all one exudes is negativity. There's so much more to looks & material possessions.

It is true when they say love is blind. It is not blind infatuation/affection that you choose to completely ignore or disregard the cons of a person. Rather, it is the overwhelming love that engulfs you, that you instead accept the cons and flaws of a person that it's not even an issue to begin with at all. You end up loving the person selflessly and wholeheartedly that you rejoice in the pros & accept or challenge the cons to be transformed into pros.

Therefore, it is also true about "The Secret". To be loved, you must first love. To attract good things and positivity, you must first be positive and do good deeds. To have someone date you, you must first change to be someone you would be willing to date yourself. Remember karma; do good & good will be done unto you, do harm & harm will in turn come upon you.

So before you pick the speck outta your neighbor's eye, pick the log outta your own eye first. Learn to love yourself first and foremost, before you attempt to love anyone else or before you allow anyone else to love you. After all, how would you know what love is if you haven't discovered it for yourself. Confidence is the key. Have Faith. Let go & let God.